Psychological and physical reasons are the cause of orgasm problems in women. There are a few common causes of orgasm problems in women. They are quite common, so if you feel like you have an orgasm problem then do not fear.
Common causes of orgasm problems
There are many causes of orgasm problems, below are some of the most common:
- not receiving sufficient stimulation
- worrying about performance
- mood
- physical health
- previous traumatic sexual experiences
- relationship problems
- hormonal changes
- medicine
- certain surgery, like a hysterectomy
- other health conditions
When do orgasm problems start?
Orgasm problems can happen to women who have never had an orgasm, or to women who have had orgasms before, but struggle to have one now.
Some women may also find that they can orgasm when masturbating, but not with their partner. This could be due to a variety of reasons including sexual stimulation from their partner, or even problems with their relationship.
Many women do not need to have an orgasm in order to enjoy sex, however, for some, being unable to have an orgasm is a problem.
Sexual problems in women are very common, and even more common in older women. Approximately one in three you to middle-aged women are affected by a variety of sexual problems. Comparatively, around 1 in 2 older women are affected by sexual dysfunctions.
What should you do if you suffer from orgasm problems?
If you are unable to have an orgasm then we recommend you see your GP as soon as possible. This is because they will be able to rule out any physical issues for orgasm problems. A variety of reasons may be issues, including your pelvis and pelvic floor muscles, your bladder, or your back passage. Using sex toys like Ben Wa balls can help you to in strengthening your pelvic floor, which in turn should help you to achieve orgasm.
If your GP is unable to help then the issue may be psychological. If so, it would be beneficial for you to see a sex therapist. A GP can help with referring you.
