How to Use a Dildo

A dildo is a marital aid or sex toy that has been created for the fundamental use of penetration, be it anal or vaginal. Dildos come in a variety of shapes and sizes, and there are numerous different types of dildos. If you want to find out more about dildos then take a look at our ultimate guide to dildos here. If you already know about dildos, but aren’t sure which is the best dildo for you or your partner then take a look at our help & advice around that matter here.

If you already have a dildo but you aren’t quite sure how to use it, or you are waiting for your dildo to arrive and wanting to find out some good tips and tricks to try when it arrives then this guide is for you as below we shall explore some of the best ways that you can use a dildo!

How to use a dildo:

There are many ways to use a dildo, and more often then not there is no wrong way to use it. Just make sure that when you are using it it feels comfortable and does what it is suppose to…arouse you!

Before you use your dildo start by setting the mood, close the blinds, dim the lights, and even put some of your favourite music on in the background. Apply some lubricant to yourself and your dildo for maximum pleasure. Then gently insert the dildo and pull back out to create a thrusting like motion. Below are a few different ways for you to use a dildo with a thrusting technique:

Deep Thrusting

This technique is where you insert the entire length of the dildo into your vagina. This can cause some wonderful sensations as well as intense stimulation, especially if the dildo is textured. When trying out this motion we recommend to use a lot of lubricant.

Shallow Penetration

The majority of sensitive nerve endings are found around the first third of your vagina, so shallow thrusting can really help you get the most from your solo masturbation session. Using a textured dildo or one with a curved tip can really help to increase the satisfaction of this meathod.

G-Spot Thrusting

Finding your G Spot for the first time can be a truly wonderful and magical experience, and can provide you with all new sensations. To perform this technique simply push and pull the dildo outward at a curved angle causing the dildo to rub against the g-spot, which can usually be found inside your vagina, behind your clitoris.

Temperature Play

This can give using a dildo a whole new sensation. Leave a metal, glass or silicone dildo in a bowl of warm or cold water. The different temperature when the dildo enters you can feel magical!

Anal Penetration

If you like anal sex, then using an dildo for anal penetration will be for you. You can use both the deep thrusting or shallow penetration techniques, both giving you all sorts of pleasure. Remember to always use plenty of lubricant when doing this and to also start off slowly before getting faster.

Double Penetration

A lot of people fantasise about double penetration with two partners, and using a dildo whilst having penetrative sex with a partner can be a great way to give this a go. You can even try it with two dildos, a dildo and a butt plug, or a double ended dildo.

How to clean a dildo?

Dildos are very easy to clean, and we always recommend to do so both before and after use. You can clean your dildo with specifically formulated sex toy cleaner, or with warm soapy water.

If you have any more questions on how to use a dildo then please feel free to contact us and one of our product experts would be more than happy to get back to you with an answer!

How to make a dildo?

There is no need to try and make a DIY dildo as this could lead to injury. Here at Loving Joy we aim to manufacture high quality and extremely affordable dildos that everyone can afford!