What is the best dildo for beginners?
Beginners typically benefit from starting with smaller, manageable insertable lengths (around 4 to 5 inches) and slender diameters, and are made from body-safe silicone.
Are silicone dildos body-safe and easy to clean?
Yes, premium medical-grade and liquid silicone models are non-porous, hypoallergenic, and exceptionally hygienic, making them easy to clean and safe for regular use.
How do suction cup dildos work for hands-free play?
Suction cup dildos feature a sturdy, flared base designed to adhere securely to smooth, flat, non-porous surfaces like shower tiles or floors for versatile solo or couples play.
Can dildos be used with a strap-on harness?
Many models are fully strap-on compatible or feature stable bases designed to fit securely into a Universal Harness for seamless shared play with a partner.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is a dildo?
A dildo is a non-vibrating sex toy designed to simulate the shape, size, and feel of a penis or provide targeted internal stimulation. It is typically used for vaginal or anal penetration during solo sexual activity or with a partner.
Dildos are available in a variety of shapes, sizes, and body-safe materials. Silicone is the most popular choice due to its soft feel, flexibility, non-porous nature, and ease of sterilisation. Other common materials include tempered glass, medical-grade metal, TPE, latex, and PVC.
Beyond personal pleasure, dildos can also serve medical and therapeutic functions, such as pelvic floor physical therapy and gender-affirming care. To ensure safe use, always clean your toy thoroughly before and after use and pair it with plenty of water-based lubricant.
What are the different types of dildos?
There are several distinct types of dildos categorized by material and design:
- Silicone Dildos: Soft, flexible, hypoallergenic, and non-porous. They retain body warmth quickly, are highly durable, and can be sterilised in boiling water. Always pair with water-based lubricant.
- Glass Dildos: Smooth, tempered borosilicate glass that is firm, non-porous, and hygienic. Excellent for temperature play in warm or cold water.
- Metal Dildos: Medical-grade stainless steel or anodised aluminium providing heavy, ultra-firm stimulation that retains temperatures well.
- TPE Dildos: Lifelike skin-like texture at an accessible price point. Requires thorough washing and drying as TPE is slightly porous.
- Latex, PVC, & Rubber Dildos: Budget-friendly synthetic choices offering high flexibility. Ensure PVC options are phthalate-free.
What is the difference between a suction cup and strap-on dildo?
Suction Cup Dildos: Feature a sturdy, flared suction base that adheres securely to smooth, flat, non-porous surfaces like shower tiles or laminate floors for hands-free solo or couples play.
Strap-On Dildos: Designed with a base intended to fit securely into an adult harness worn by a partner during penetrative sex, offering precise tactile control over depth and pace.
What are dildos used for?
Dildos are versatile wellness products used for solo masturbation, enhancing partnered sex, trying new positions, kink/BDSM play (such as pegging), and therapeutic pelvic floor exercises.
What materials are dildos made from?
Dildos are primarily crafted from non-porous materials like medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, stainless steel, and aluminium, or flexible porous materials such as TPE, TPR, latex, and PVC.
How do I choose the right dildo?
Consider four key criteria when selecting your toy:
- Size & Girth: Beginners should start with smaller insertable lengths (4–5 inches) and slender diameters.
- Shape: Choose curved shafts for G-spot or prostate stimulation, or straight shafts for classic penetration.
- Material: Select non-porous silicone or glass for maximum hygiene and durability.
- Features: Look for suction bases, harness compatibility, or internal vibration based on your preferences.
Can I use a dildo during pregnancy?
Yes, using a dildo during a low-risk pregnancy is generally safe. Always consult your midwife or GP first, maintain strict toy hygiene to prevent infection, and use generous water-based lubricant.
How do I clean a dildo?
Clean non-porous toys (silicone, glass, metal) with warm water and mild antibacterial soap or specialized toy cleaner. Silicone, glass, and metal toys without electronic parts can also be sterilised in boiling water for 3–5 minutes. Clean TPE/TPR toys with warm soap and water, let air dry completely, and apply cornstarch or renewal powder to maintain texture.
Are there any risks while using a dildo?
To ensure total safety: always use a flared base for anal play to prevent retention, use water-based lubricant to avoid tissue irritation, and sanitize toys thoroughly before and after use or protect with a fresh condom.
Can a dildo be used with a partner?
Yes! Dildos are commonly used
Loving Joy Dildos
Shop our selection of dildos and choose from realistic dildos, to non-phallic dildos. All the dildos that have suction cups are harness compatible, so you can create your own strap on dildo by adding the Loving Joy Universal Harness.
Order from the official Loving Joy store before 2 pm for same day dispatch (Monday to Friday) and discreet delivery; and remember when you choose Loving Joy you are choosing quality and so we offer a 1-year warranty on all Loving Joy products. Loving quality, loving value, loving pleasure, Loving Joy.
If you are struggling to find the best dildo for you then take a look at our dildo buyer guides that have been created to help you make an informed decision on which dildo you should buy.

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