Dildos: The Ultimate Guide

Dildos are some of the most popular sex toys available. Dildos are designed to be used to replicate sexual penetration, and can be used both vaginally and anally. However, there are different types of dildos that for both practices. So don’t go jumping in on either too soon!

What Is A Dildo? 

A dildo is a sex toy that usually looks and resembles a penis. They are designed for anal or vaginal penetration. Some dildos are nowadays not designed to resemble the human penis. These penetration toys are extremely popular lesbian sex toys, and pegging toys.

Dildos come in a huge variety of colours, shapes, textures and styles. Some will prefer to use realistic dildos that are designed to look and feel just like the real thing. Others may prefer some that is more unrealistic, these are known as non-phallic dildos.

Dildos are made from a huge range of different materials. Older types of dildos were made from plastic, rubber, jelly and latex. These materials are porous, and aren’t great for vaginal insertion. As material technology developed, and understanding of materials in the body improved, so did the materials of dildos. Now many dildos are made from non-porous materials like silicone or glass.

An excellent feature for some dildos is a suction cup. Suction cup dildos feature a suction cup base that can be attached to any flat surface like a mirror or a wall. These dildos can also be attached to a strap-on harness, turning them into strap-on dildos. A great feature of strap-on dildos is that anybody can use them. You can use a strap-on if you have a penis, and they help many people who suffer from erectile dysfunction. If you have a penis hollow strap-ons are available, this allows for the wearer to put his penis into the dildo, making it more comfortable to wear, as well as a more realistic experience. You can also use a strap-on if you don’t have a penis, and then penetrate a partner of any gender. Strap-ons can be worn for vaginal sex, anal sex, and oral sex.

Dildos come in a variety of different types and sizes. Below is a few things to consider when buying a dildo.

Dildo Size

The size of a dildo is very important to consider for numerous reasons. First off, this may be the first time that you are buying a sex toy, and as such you may want to buy a smaller dildo to get started. Alternatively, you may want to experience a full feeling, and as such would require a large dildo.

Another very important thing to consider when shopping for a dildo is what you will be using your dildo for. This is because there are dildos that are specifically designed for different things. For example, if you want a dildo for anal penetration then you would want to buy an anal dildo, if you want a life-like experience then you may want a realistic dildo.

Anal Dildos vs. Vaginal Dildos

All dildos can be used for vaginal penetration. However, some dildos have not been designed for anal penetration, so it is best to check and confirm that the dildo is suitable for anal penetration.

Anal dildos will have a slimmer tip and shaft to allow for easy insertion. They will also feature a flared base that is there to prevent the sex toy from fully entering the rectum. If you decide to use your anal dildo for vaginal penetration then make sure you clean your dildo beforehand. Not cleaning your anal dildo properly before vaginal insertion can lead to infection.

How Do Dildos Work and How Do You Use Them?

Dildos come in every shape and size imaginable, some may even be designed to resemble fantasy characters or even animals! You can pick up cheap dildos that will cost you very little, or you can blow a lot of money on some. What is most important is that you buy a dildo that is right for you. When shopping for a dildo make sure you take into account the quality and style.

Using a dildo is usually straight forward as they are penetration toys. Below are a few different ways in which you can use a dildo, and some frequently asked questions about the different types of dildos.

Using A Dildo

Using a dildo is extremely easy and straight forward. Like with any sex toy it is extremely important that you are in the mood. So start off by slowly arousing yourself. If you have a classic dildo then lay in a comfortable position. If you have a suction cup dildo you may want to attach it to a wall or flat surface. When you are positioned comfortably apply some lubricant to the dildo and then slowly insert it into your vagina. If you are using the dildo for anal penetration then make sure you lubricate your rectum as well.

Once the dildo is inserted start moving it in and out, or riding it. You can keep doing this until you reach climax and orgasm. Things to try whilst using your dildo:

Play With Rhythm And Speed

Whilst using your dildo you may want to try out different speeds, rhythms and motions. Before changing things up, make sure that you are comfortable with your dildo, and then start trying different things.

Add Clitoral Stimulation

Once you have got used to using your dildo you may want to add some clitoral stimulation. You can do this with your fingers, or you can involve a bullet vibrator. Simultaneous clitoral and vaginal stimulation can lead to what is known as a blended orgasm. This is where you would climax clitorally and internally at the same time.

Try Temperature Play

If you have a metal or glass dildo then you would be able to warm up or cool down the sex toy in a bowl of water. Inserting the dildo when cold or warm can give you even more stimulation.

Go Hands Free

Suction cup dildos allow you to place stick your dildo against and flat surface. This allows you to ride your dildo to climax. The suction cup allows you to stick the dildo to the wall, a chair, or even a table. These are great fun and allow you to get a realistic and very comfortable experience.

Find The Perfect Position

Laying on your back is the most popular position to stay in whilst masturbating. This is a very effective position and will bring you to climax. When in this position try bringing your knees up to your chest. This will expose your anus, meaning that you can easily penetrate it if you want.

If you have a suction cup dildo you have a lot more choice with the positions that you choose. What is very important when using a dildo, or any sex toy for that matter, is to make sure that you are comfortable.

What Are Strapless Strap-Ons And How Do I Hold A Strapless Strap-On In?

Strap-on dildos can be loads of fun for both men and women. Strap-on harnesses, however, can be uncomfortable, don’t look too glamorous, and sometimes don’t stimulate both partners. This is where strapless strap-ons or strapless dildos come in to play. These dildos have the usually penetrative design that other dildos do, except they feature a bulb at the base of them. The bulb is designed to be inserted by one partner, who would then penetrate the other partner.

Sometimes, finding the right strapless strap-on is difficult as many people may struggle to hold it in. That is why when buying a strapless strap-on that you take into account the size of the bulb. The bigger the bulb, the easier it will be to hold in. If you have already bought a strapless strap-on and are struggling to hold it in, then try using some tights to support it. Simply pop a whole in your tights that the strapless dildo will fit through, and then keep them on whilst penetrating your partner.

What Are Ejaculating Dildos And How Do They Work?

Dildos usually have a very flexible design, and if you want it, you can get very life-like dildos that give you a realistic experience. If you want an incredibly realistic experience, then a ejaculating dildo may be the right sex toy for you. Ejaculating dildos are designed to release liquid inside you. These realistic dildos are designed to release on command, and often feature a bulb that will shoot the liquid inside you when you press it. What is great about squirting dildos is that they produce incredible internal stimulation as well as make your solo sessions even more pleasing.

Should I Buy A Dildo?

Dildos are great sex toys for penetration and sexual stimulation. If you want to improve your solo masturbation sessions or even mix up your sex life with your partner then a dildo can be the perfect sex toy to help you do that. These marital aids are extremely popular, so we highly recommend that you buy a dildo!

What Are The Best Dildos?

When buying a dildo there are many things to consider. If you aren’t sure which type of dildo to buy, then below are four of our best selling dildos that should help you choose.

If you don’t like the look of any of these popular dildos then take a look at our full guide to the best dildos.

If you have any more questions on dildos then please feel free to contact us and one of the sex experts here at Loving Joy will be more than happy to get back to you as soon as possible.