How to Introduce Anal Sex Toys to Your Relationship

Many people enjoy anal play as part of their usual sex life, and it is becoming more and more popular, however their are many people who still have not discovered the sensations that anal play can produce.

The anus is jammed with very sensitive nerve endings, and using an anal sex toy or stimulating it with your partner can enhance both solo masturbation as well as partnered play.

Anal sex toys have been specifically designed to enhance anal play. They are designed to allow easy insertion and have different features to stimulate the forbidden pleasure zones that are found in your bum.

Do you want to try anal play with your partner? Not sure how to bring the topic up? Well here are a few tips and pointers from the Loving Joy sex experts:

Good sex and a healthy relationship is all about communication so it is always a good idea to talk to your partner about what you want to try, the chances are they will be very open and more than happy to live out your sexual fantasies with you.

If you are talking about sex with your partner it is always a good idea to talk about it out of the bedroom, or when you are not having any sexual play together. By doing this there is no pressure on either partner. Make sure you are honest with your partner, say why you want to try it, and listen to what they have to say about it.

A great way to start a conversation on anal play or anal sex toys is to look at our beginners guide to anal sex toys together. This way your partner will be able to read more about the different types of anal sex toys and may become much more open to the idea because of it.

Many people are usually worried about one of two things:

  1. Does using an anal sex toy hurt?
  2. What if it is very messy?

Anal sex toys come in a variety of sizes, if you are new to anal sex toys then we always recommend using a beginner friendly sized anal toy, like the Loving Joy Finger Fun Begginers Butt Plug. We also suggest you use plenty of lubricant when getting involved in any anal play. By starting off slow, and using plenty of lubricant, using an anal sex toy shouldn’t be painful at all. However, if it makes you feel uncomfortable then stop, and maybe try again another time.

It’s easy to understand why many think that a little bit of anal play is messy. However, it is also extremely easy to clean up beforehand by simply having a shower or a bath. You can also use a douche to make sure you are fully clean. Knowing you are clean can really help with your confidence and both you and your partner relax, meaning that you will be able to enjoy the experience even more together.

If you and your partner would like to try out some anal play, then take a look at our guide to the best anal sex toys to help you make an informed decision.

If you have any more questions on anal sex toys then please feel free to contact us and one of our sex experts will be more than happy to get back to you.