I have always loved using wireless remote control toys. They are a fantastic way to liven up a dull evening. My partner also loves the control element. He likes to watch me squirm in my seat and try to keep quiet. The remote control beaded prober is great as a wireless toy to use around the house but it wouldn't be my first choice of toy to use in public. It is quiet enough to use if you were in a club or noisy pub and wouldn't be heard in the next room of the house. My problem with wearing it out was it slipping out. Although the toy is soft to touch, it is only the tip that is flexible. This makes it comfortable to insert but as it sits quite deeply it not comfortable to wear out for long periods of time. It is great for around the house and having the wireless remote means that it is easy to turn the vibration on and off without having to reach around to press a button! It is very easy to use and the beaded sensation is fantastic when you thrust it in and out. Overall, it is a good toy to add to the collection but I would only recommend in to slightly more experienced users to wear it outside. Go on, I dare you ;-)